We must sow the Seed of Redemption to
meet the need to be loved unconditionally. We
sow the seed of Redemption or agape love
when we seek reconciliation and when we love
each other in spite of the ugly things that we
see during the course of marriage. When your
partner is miserable, move towards him or her.
Love him or her as Christ loved you by
focusing on his or her needs and not his or her
faults. A redemptive relationship is one in which
both partners are consistently rescuing each
other by turning potentially destructive
moments into foundations for mutual growth.