Marriage allows us the privilege of ministering Christ to each other. We become Christ’s ear–to listen compassionately, Christ’s mouth–to speak lovingly, and Christ’s hands to do good deeds for each other. But only faith in Christ– and obedience to His Word– can help us to love this way consistently. Left to ourselves, we only focus on ourselves and our feelings. If we feel good towards another then we might act that way. But emotions often lead us astray. Relying on feelings will ultimately lead to failure. But if we focus on Christ, then his Faith Love Obedience and Wisdom will F.L.O.W into our marriage.