In summary, say these powerful, transformational truths to yourself as often as you need to:
“I believe that God loves me, my spouse, and our marriage.”
“God is pulling for both of us to succeed. He is actively working with us to help us.”
“I am a new creation in Christ. My spouse is a new creation in Christ, and our marriage is a new creation in Christ.”
“Our marriage can be better than it was in the beginning. This is a new beginning. It’s the start of an entirely new life with an incredibly bright future.”
Put on this new mindset every day. Refuse to put on the old vision of death and decay. Get your mind out of the garbage dump of the past, and wash away destructive thoughts with hope.