Start to focus on the needs and the
strengths of your partner. DO NOT FOCUS
ON PAST FAILURES OR THE THINGS THAT
YOU FIND UNATTRACTIVE OR IRRITATING.
DON’T FOCUS ON WHAT YOU PERCEIVE
TO BE YOUR PARTNER’S FAULTS.
INSTEAD, FOCUS ON THE POSITIVES.
See him or her in the most positive light
possible. Begin to actively celebrate his or her
strengths and good qualities inwardly and
outwardly. Think of your spouse’s past
goodness towards you. Each day, actively
encourage and overwhelm yourself with
thoughts of your partner’s inner value and